Funeral Dress Code: What’s Appropriate to Wear?
Date: 14 Aug 2025
How to choose respectful and appropriate attire for a funeral
When attending a funeral, it’s natural to want to show respect to the family and honour the person who has passed. Choosing the right outfit is one of the simplest ways to do this. But expectations can vary depending on culture, religion, and the tone of the service.
Here’s a guide to help you decide what’s appropriate to wear.
Traditional Funeral Attire:
At most funerals, dark, conservative clothing is the safest choice. Black is the most traditional colour, but dark navy, charcoal, or muted tones are also appropriate.
Celebration of Life Services
Some families may request bright colours or clothing that reflects the personality of their loved one. In these cases, follow any guidance in the funeral notice.
Example: “Please wear colourful clothing to celebrate Sarah’s joyful life.”
When in doubt, smart-casual clothing in softer colours, respectful yet not overly formal.
Religious and Cultural Considerations
Certain faiths and cultures have specific dress expectations:
Māori tangihanga – It is respectful to dress modestly and avoid flashy or revealing clothing.
Hindu funerals – White is often worn as a symbol of purity.
Catholic/Christian funerals – Dark colours remain a common choice.
Muslim funerals – Modesty is important, with women covering arms and legs, and sometimes hair.
If you’re unsure, ask the family or funeral director for guidance.
What to Avoid
Bright, flashy, or heavily patterned clothing (unless requested), or revealing or overly casual outfits like shorts, singlets, or ripped jeans. Hats, sunglasses, or accessories that draw attention (unless needed for sun protection)
Final Tip
When in doubt, choose simple, respectful attire. It’s always better to be slightly overdressed than risk appearing casual at such an important occasion
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